Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Know Your Role


Ever since Facebook changed it's structure, there's always some interesting picture that pops onto my newsfeed. This one in particular caught my eye because it not only appealed to female emotions that I'm powerless to control, due to the estrogen than flows through whatever vessels it does. But also because I think most women would agree with this. I say most because not all women have a problem with being subservient or getting the proverbial short end of the stick. But for the portion of us that actually want to be revered, and respected, and loved in a way that is equal (and if we're lucky superior lol) to our partners, is reciprocity too much to ask? I don't think so.


Tuesday, October 18, 2011

You Better Not Eff This Up


Bridget Kelly - Seek and Destroy

This morning as I'm going through my daily routine of checking blogs, I come across a song by Roc Nation's new artist Bridget Kelly called Seek and Destroy. First let me say the song is bananas, and being the G that I am I could so relate. She belts out to her man "you better not f**k this up".

The way my mind works scares me sometimes 'cause my thoughts started to veer all the way to the left. Hearing her repeatedly tell her man how he better not eff them and their relationship up, got me to thinking about my own life. I don't have the luxury of effin' this up. This is my one and only shot.

I know it sounds like a stretch but for me it really isn't. I don't know if it's just me but it seems that I'm always at some sort of crossroads. I'll give you a few instances: